Although I have eight other living children, Dekar’s absence was apparent to me.
We included him in on our Mother’s Day celebration by having ice cream.
Melchizedek and Isaiah both had Blue Moon. Can you tell?
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December 24, 2009 at 4:22 am
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May 17, 2009 at 7:36 pm
emily from stepping stones
I found you from BabyLoss Directory- thanks for sharing your story with us. It helps to know we are not alone. ((hugs)) Emily from Stepping Stones (http://www.steppingstonesblog.blogspot.com)
May 12, 2009 at 6:52 pm
Danielle Felton
Oh how fun! I looooove blue moon! Great choice boys! 😉
May 11, 2009 at 1:17 am
Jackie
Im always reminded of Dekar when we have ice cream
May 11, 2009 at 2:01 pm
Madge
I so understand that. Ice cream has always been something I could take or leave, but now it’s a way of remembering my son. It’s a whole different thing for me now!